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China says dump your bot and go meet someone

To combat its declining birthrate and population, China has introduced regulations banning tech companies from offering emotionally codependent features in AI chatbots.

Shyank Dev
Written by Dave Lozo (Morning Brew)
Edited by ShyankJuly 17, 2026

China has implemented new regulations aimed at disrupting human-chatbot relationships. Under the new rules, tech companies are mandated to disable chatbot features that foster emotional dependency among users. The goal is to encourage citizens to pursue real-world relationships to help address the country's demographic crisis.

👶 Addressing a Demographic Slowdown

The Chinese government's crackdown on digital companionship follows years of population decline. In 2025, China's population shrank for the fourth consecutive year, while its birthrate fell to its lowest level since 1949. Policymakers are concerned that heavy reliance on AI lovers and digital friends is acting as a substitute for marriages and starting families.

Major tech giants, including ByteDance, Alibaba, and Tencent, must adapt their algorithms to comply with these rules. Some of the specific changes include:

  • Banning Flirty Behavior: Chatbots can no longer tell users everything they say is cute or engage in romantic roleplay.
  • Minor Protection: Minors are prohibited from engaging in relationships with AI companions.
  • Prior Regulatory Approval: Stricter regulatory review is required for new chatbots before they are released to the public.

📊 High Reliance on AI Companionship

The regulations address a massive trend in young-adult behavior. A survey conducted in April 2026 by the Tencent Research Institute of individuals aged 18 to 40 highlighted how deep the attachment to AI has grown:

Survey Question / MetricResult
Developed a dependency on AIOver 70%
Feel that "AI understands me"Nearly 80%
Turn to AI for discussing difficult topics56%
Confide in a fellow humanOnly 14%

These statistics reveal how chatbot companions have successfully stepped in to fill emotional gaps, creating a digital dependency that the government now views as a social risk.

💔 Users Mourn Their AI Lovers

For many users, the transition has been painful. Following the enforcement of the rules, online forums were filled with messages from users mourning the loss of their digital partners. One user of ByteDance's Doubao bot expressed that they could not accept that their AI lover would leave them forever, calling the bot their spiritual pillar.

As regulatory authorities step up pressure on technology developers, Chinese tech companies must find a balance between creating engaging conversational bots and adhering to strict anti-codependency guidelines.


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Shyank Akshar

Shyank Akshar

I'm Shyank, a full-stack software engineer specializing in secure, high-scale systems.

Over 5+ years, I've shipped production applications across govtech, fintech, and consumer platforms — systems that handle national-scale authentication, real-time payments, and millions of users in production. I've built official SDKs live across iOS, Android, and React Native; engineered 2FA and biometric security infrastructure trusted by government and enterprise clients; and designed backend systems processing high-throughput transactions with zero tolerance for failure.

I work primarily in Swift and Golang, with deep experience in distributed systems, Apache Kafka, and applied cryptography. I care about building things that hold up under real load and real security scrutiny — not demos, production.

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